James 1:5-6 "And if, in the process, any of you does not know how to meet any particular problem he has only to ask God---who gives generously to all men without making them feel guilty---and he may be quite sure that the necessary wisdom will be given him. But he must ask in sincere faith without secret doubts." (Phillips)
What process? This refers back to meeting trials and temptations with faith, thus producing a mature perseverance in our faith life. We are assured that God will help us with this process.
We needn't be afraid or embarrassed to ask. God wants to help, wants to teach us and guide us to more mature faith. That's why he left us the Holy Spirit.
"Sincere faith without secret doubts"---I think we have a fear of having those "secret doubts". Maybe this is one of Satan's weapons. If he makes us feel we have weak faith, we will be too ashamed to ask God for anything. But here it says ask for wisdom anyway---God wants to give it to you.
So maybe we worry too much about weak faith and doubts. Come as children and just ask, trusting that our Father wants to give to us what we need! God loves us and has shown us unmerited kindness and endless mercy.
Thank you Father for your gifts of grace, mercy, love and wisdom. All we need you are ready to give us when we ask. amen